Hello everyone

This time a bit of an unusual email, but why not.

I do not approach women. Period.

Don't get me wrong, I do love talking to them and I have plenty of interactions.

I will tell you the reason why I don't approach:

I have seen friends of mine doing all kinds of approaches, and the realization came that it is a waste of time, for both parties.

Most women that go out to bars or clubs are not on the same page; and this actually counts for the majority of the population.

Most people simply don't have the same values.

Most people don't have a strong belief or don't believe at all.

Most people think we come from monkeys.

Most people don't take care of their health (drink raw milk and eat liver).

Most people are feminists.

And that's okay, and it doesn't mean that they are "bad people", it is just how things are.

Another reason why I don't approach

You got to have a vibe with someone. I see so many guys approach women that aren't even suiting for them.

First you have to assess the girl, and see if she matches your vibe.

This is like Yin and Yang.

What's your preference, is it something hot you are looking for? Or someone who you can chill with?

David Deida describes this best in his bestselling book "The Way of The Superior Man"

Every woman has a "temperature" to herself, and same for you; so know what you are looking for, what energy suits you the most.

You gotta be selective, this is what it is about.

And finally:

Is she into you?

Why would you approach a girl that isn't into you?

The girls I meet whom I have a good connection with are always taking the first step in making things obvious...

Women will make themselves approachable to someone they see fit. They are intuitive and selective.

A good sign is if she makes herself approachable.

Guys just approach whoever, like as if it is a numbers game.

Waste of time.

You gotta sharpen your intuition hermano, and see with eyes unclouded.

Don't chase tail.

Let go and it will all come to you.

Let the process unfold.

Have a good weekend,

Greetings from Mexico

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